Friday, May 24, 2019

How to End a First Date (Do's and Do Not's)

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First dates are fun, but they can be stressful. At the end of the date, you might not know how to end it. Check out these do’s and don’ts to determine the best way to end your first dates.

Wednesday, June 27, 2018

Why First Impression Matters

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Have you ever met a very nice person and suddenly you feel like you have known each other forever only to text/call her later and realize it was not as rosy as it seemed? Many people go through this every day all over the world and they are left wondering what might have gone wrong. The thing is, first impression matters a lot. Humans are of the behavior of judging people just based on the color of their teeth.

Tuesday, February 27, 2018

Finding the Perfect Date

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When it comes to love there are many obstacles that can get in the way of perfect happiness. Some people throw themselves into a relationship without even working out whether it is right for them. So, how do you know if you have found the right person? Well, there is a lot more to a healthy relationship than many people think. It’s not all about intimacy but also about friendship.

Monday, February 12, 2018

Pick a Mate, 68. Have a Night at the Bingo for a Date with a Difference

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Finding something a little different to for a date is always a challenge. Taking in a movie and going for a meal or a few drinks are fine in their own way, but are not exactly imaginative. A walk in the countryside is great, as long as the weather is OK, but wandering off into the lonely countryside is not necessarily a clever idea in the early stages of a relationship when you hardly know each other.

Thursday, December 7, 2017

How To Dodge First Date Dilemmas

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The thought of it gives you heart palpitations, cold sweats and clammy hands. You can’t imagine pulling yourself together enough to make it there in one presentable piece. You’ve been hoping he’d ask you out for the past three weeks now and the moment is slowly encroaching. Should you cancel? You’ve got a dodgy feeling in your tummy. You’re probably really sick and contagious and need to stay at home in bed. No, stop being over-dramatic and pull yourself together. Take a few deep breaths and get your head in the game. You are a strong, confident goddess who deserves to be treated to the best night of her life. A few simple to follow steps will give you the air of self-assurance you deserve to make this date great.

Monday, November 13, 2017

5 Interesting, but Unusual First-Date Ideas

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Caution: if you are a person who would prefer to invite his girlfriend-to-be to the cinema or restaurant at the first date, we are sorry to inform you that this article is not tailored to your preferences, you rather stop reading. In contrast, in case you are a person who enjoys skipping the beaten track, we highly recommend you to read on!


The first date plays an important role in any person's life as it is the moment when you shape a general impression on the person and possibly determine the fate of your further relationship. Thus, in the light of defining the motto of this romantic day as "all or nothing", the importance of organizing an original and memorable appointment comes to fore.

Thursday, September 21, 2017

5 Things You Should Never Do On A First Date

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It doesn't matter if you're browsing for partners via free singles dating sites or in person, you need to be prepared for that stressful first date. Unfortunately, most people simply can't control their emotions and they end up saying or doing something wrong. Recovering from a big mistake on a first date is one of the hardest things in dating. Therefore, in order to help you avoid these rather awkward situations, we decided to pick out 5 things you should NEVER do on a first date! Check them out.

Friday, June 16, 2017

The First Date: No-Sweat Confidence Boosters for Both Men and Women

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You are on your first date with the man or woman of your dreams and you want it to be perfect so hopefully, it will be the first of many, but how can you tell if he or she is really having a good time and will want to see you again? Here are some clues to watch out for that will put your mind at rest that your first date is going well.

Friday, December 9, 2016

Zits, Spills and Awkward Silences - Quick Fixes for Date Night Disasters

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By Jasmine Hewitt

It’s no secret that dates can be nerve-wracking, especially first dates with someone you don’t really know. But with an estimated 40 million Americans willingly using online dating services, dating is clearly popular and something many single people are up for trying.

Friday, December 2, 2016

5 Things Every Girl Does on a First Date

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First dates are always nerve-wracking both for men and women. Even the bravest of guys had sweaty palms, blushed, and wished they had stayed at home. What should calm you down is the fact the girl sitting in front of you is even more nervous. Girls are complex creatures and they are extremely concerned about so many details just as you are. As a man, you should do your best to step up to her level. For this, you need to know common models of women’s behavior on a first date. At bridesbay.com, they figured out the things that women will necessarily do going out with a guy for the first time.

Tuesday, July 26, 2016

A Guide To Men's Biggest Fears On Your First Date And How To Make It Work

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By Henry Kingston

No matter how cool men try to be on their first date, chances are that they’re just about as nervous as you are. Well, that is the nature of first dates after all. Here’s your guide to men and their biggest fears on date night number 1 and how you can deal with such situations.

Wednesday, May 28, 2014

Guy Talks About First Time He Asked a Girl Out, They're Now Married

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Remember my post on firsts? For this young couple, today being Children's day in Nigeria is the anniversary of the first time they ever met, and the first time the guy had to ask a girl out. Bidemi was still a teenager in secondary school when at a march past at a Lagos stadium, some of his school mates pressured him to "toast" his first babe. His wife, also named Bidemi, was the lady selected to help him pass through this manhood rite. Hilarious! Read on for his account...

Monday, May 19, 2014

Do You Remember Your Firsts With Your Partner?

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By Nkem Akinsoto

The online and long distance beginnings of my relationship with Atala is legend by now [Read Here], but suffice to say, we met for the first time already having deep feelings for each other which we refused to call love, and we lived thousands of miles and continents apart.

Friday, January 17, 2014

Psst…Here's What Women Secretly Hate In Their Dates

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By Vani Chugh

What do women really want? Hard to figure out right, since most men aren’t given the gift to eavesdrop on their mental conversation like that lucky sod Mel Gibson! Good news is that women talk and discuss about what they like, so there’s some plenty of information out there. Then of course, yours truly is a woman who knows a thing or two about a thing or two!

Wednesday, October 16, 2013

8 Different Kinds of Outing For a First Date or Any Other Quality Time With Your Partner

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For a lot of people, their love language is quality time spent with their partner or significant other. Yet, most of us run out of ideas sooner or later on what to do to fill those times we get together. After all, you can't stay indoors all the time, or sit looking into each others eyes no matter how good looking you both are. I found these ideas and thought to share. #thankmelater :)


Friday, October 11, 2013

For Ladies - Making it Less Complex When You Make The First Move To a Relationship

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By Eniola Lawal

To all my ladies in the house! Making a first move to a relationship doesn't particularly mean asking a guy out or on a date, though it is the most outright first move. For those who think it is wrong and its not a noble act, well I say it all depends on your kind of person and mentality, and talking about your kind of person, will you just let it slip by? Why? Because you think the guy should come to you first? What if he hasn't noticed you, or he just doesn't see it? Remember, if you don't make him see it, he won't realize it.

Friday, July 26, 2013

5 Style Tips - What To Wear For That Big Date

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By Rebecca Jones

A crucial date can be stressful enough without the added angst of deciding what to wear.  Eliminate any anxieties (or as many as are within your control) with these quick and easy tips on what to wear.

Monday, June 3, 2013

A Woman Offering To Split the Bill on First Dates

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You know the scenario well: The check comes. No one moves. You look at each other. You smile. The check sits there. This, my friends, is what we call a little game of “pick-up check.”

The question is: Should a woman offer to split the bill on the first date?

Friday, May 24, 2013

What Not to Do On A First Date

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When singles decide to go out on a first date together after being introduced, or meeting online, they usually have a lot of questions. Not just for each other, but about what might be expected of them. How should they dress, should they offer to split the bill, for the ladies, or should they ask the lady to split, for the guys. Also are issues about what to talk about, be fashionably late, etc. And then there's the elephant in the room, go for sex on the first date or not?

Thursday, March 28, 2013

Women Who Go Out on Dates with Men For Free Food

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Some ladies have made it a part time career. It was in 2006 that the concept of 'dinner whore' was popularized when the New York Post published an article about Brooke Parkhurst, pictured above. She was then a 26-year-old food blogger, and confessed to running up a combined tab of $30,000 after going on more than 200 dinner dates.

More recently, a New York Carrie Bradshaw wannabe, Brittny Pierre, kept her food budget down by utilizing online dating sites like OKCupid and Craiglist personals to score dinner dates, not for romance but for the free meals. In her own words on XOJane;